The Past All Over Again

Well, I think this is the more suitable title for my post today. I was thinking of a few other titles but I think this is the most suitable. Why? I don't know why. Don't ask me that question. I don't know how my brains and preferences work, I just know that I like it this way that is why it is this way. End of story.

So, continue on with the original reason why I wanted to write this post. This time I think in a calmer feeling. I don't feel that affected like the last time this sort of thing happened. Why? This time I think I can explain it, sort of. I think this time I kind of like accepted the fact that people don't change easily. This is the truth. This is fact. History is always going to find a way to repeat itself, this is always true. I think you might nod in agreement to my statement. So, yeah!! This means that I am correct for once. Haha..

So, why do I say that? Or maybe I should say I think this is just how life is. Attitude is not something you can change overnight. You might not being able to change it even if you are given a long period of time. The key to this change is your determination. Determination to change. Yet most people lack this as it is their habits of doing it and thus it is very very hard to change. They must put in extra effort to control it, then have the determination of keeping their effort. Most will give up in the process as it is more easier this way.
This is why sometimes one would say, " I have told you thousands of times already, why don't you get it?" Don't you think you hear this a lot? Yes yes, I know. I am that kind of person as well, in fact most of us are like that. So, now you know why. Attitudes and Habits cannot be changed like you change, it is more complicated than that, and I think most of you know it already.

Okay, now I have lost my way. I always do that. I would come out with a good post title then halfway through I might include irrelevant stuffs then I will run out of topic, or have nothing more to continue.
Inspiration came and I am back on track.

So, here we are, living our lives as we wanted. Then there came in the other people. Families, Friends, Co-leagues, all those people that we interact with in our lives. They might not always agree with our ways, thus conflicts arise. How to deal with this? I don't want to go in there. I will leave it for you to handle it yourself, this is because different people have different ways of dealing with conflicts. I just want to bring out the topic of some people may take conflicts more seriously than other people. There is where the feeling of dislike came in, and worse still is fights, with the worst murder.
Okay, I am out of ideas again.

I think I had been way out of topic since the start. I should have emphasize on that people don't change easily and thus history always repeats itself. The past will be going all over again. We will face the same problem as we did before. Thus I think I should conclude and get on with doing my work or else my history will always be repeated again.

Okay, conclusion is, to avoid the past to happen all over again, we must, and I seriously do mean MUST study the problem we faced in the past in a neutral way. I know it is hard to do so, but we can always try. Then we reevaluate the situation and decisions that was taken by the parties involved. By saying this, I hope that everyone is rational and will thus make the appropriate revaluation and then learn from this mistake. After that, when similar problems occurs, we can apply what we learn in the past here and hope to get a better result. This is the optimum way of doing things, this is called learning. Yet, who can do this effectively? I don't know about the others, but I know I certainly cannot, but I am trying.

So, let us all try to make the correct decision and thus live a better life. All the BEST to all.

(Sorry for the ending, I suddenly ran out of idea and thus the post seems quite a bit poor in the end part. Well, sorry for that, this is all I can come out with. Hope you enjoyed it and learn something from it, if there really are anything for you to learn that is. Haha..)